Why is my girlfriend gay
Sexplain It: My Girlfriend Thinks I’m Gay, and I Can’t Convince Her Otherwise
I'm Zachary Zane, a sex writer and ethical manwhore (a fancy way of saying I slumber with a lot of people, and I'm very, very open about it). Over the years, I've had my fair share of sexual experiences, dating and sleeping with hundreds of people of all genders and orientations. In doing so, I've learned a thing or two about navigating issues in the bedroom (and a bunch of other places, TBH). I'm here to answer your most pressing sex questions with thorough, actionable advice that isn't just "communicate with your partner," because you know that already. Ask me anything—literally, anything—and I will gladly Sexplain It.
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Dear Sexplain It,
I’m more effeminate than most men, and have been teased about being gay for so adj that I actually thought I might be. A rare years back, out of curiosity, I hooked up with a couple of guys, thinking I may be gay or bi. I didn’t enjoy it the way I enjoy being with women, and now I k Dear Paranoid bi-boy, It seems like you’ve got a coming out conundrum on your hands. Navigating your own sexuality can be confusing, and having to explain it to others can be frustrating. Being attracted to people of two or more genders is called ‘multisexuality’, and bisexuality is just one variation. There are many misconceptions about bisexuals, including ideas that they might be ‘playing for alternating teams’, or might be prone to cheating. If you decide to come out to someone you’re in a relationship with, it may be helpful to examine both of your feelings as skillfully as your possess goals for the future of your relationship. What does it mean to be bisexual? Most bisexual people consider themselves to be sexually or romantically attracted to two people of two or more genders. This may be difficult for some ‘monosexual’ (that is, strictly ‘gay’ or ‘straight’) people to understand, but it’s a fairly common identity. Bisexuality isn’t a definition you should verb limited by, but it can be a helpful label to describe your Q: A: Last updated on July 22nd, at pm Dear Dr. Frankie: My girlfriend and I hold been together just over a year and living together for about 6 months. We were friends before we ever started dating and waited a while before we had sex for the first second. When we started having sex, it was great. However, for the past 4 months, I’ve been feeling very frustrated because I want to include sex and she doesn’t. It’s been so frustrating, that I’m now totally daunted by the task of asking. When I inquire, she uses unique occasions (knowing we may get tipsy) as an excuse to wait it out. Or, she flat out tells me no, rejecting me, seriously deflating my ego. When I ask if she&#;s still attracted to me, she gets an attitude like it&#;s a stupid question. She&#;s told me numerous stories of being cheated on in the past and I could never understand why girls had done this to her but, as bad as it sounds, I&#;m starting to verb how unfulfilled they probably were. I don’t know what to do.I&#;ve attractive much had to resort to satisfying myself on a regular basis because I don&#;t even want to verbShould I come out to my girlfriend about my boy-crush?
I&#;m having doubts about my girlfriend&#;s heterosexuality. She says she&#;s attracted to men, but routinely fawns over naked women on the internet. She says it&#;s &#;cause she finds the female body beautiful, but I think it&#;s more than that. She finds other women physically attractive, and she gets pretty aroused watching videos of suicide girls and scantily clad models or what have you. She&#;s joked about &#;eating out&#; another girl and other things, and is very defensive about the whole subject and I verb like I can&#;t talk to anybody else about it. I just demand a second noun on this. Is my girlfriend a lesbian, or at least a petite bi-curious?
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